Break-ups

I know I haven't posted in awhile, but these past few weeks I have just been going back and forth with my mind. Sorry.

On to the topic of break-ups. I have never gone through a break-up. My first step would to get a boyfriend but watching other people I have never understood the whole concept of breaking up with someone, especially if you were only going out with someone for a couple weeks. 

" If he's dumb enough to walk away, be smart enough to let him go."

Point 1: Last year I had a friend who was constantly going out with someone and end up breaking up with that person because, " she found something wrong about them." Sure its one thing to break- up with someone if their cheating, but to break-up because you found something wrong with them, well that's just a little rude. Nobody is perfect and if you think that perfect guy for you is out there for you, well you thought wrong. No one is going to be absolutely perfect. If you find someone close then you should go out with them, but not spot on. Your always going to find something wrong, but it turns out that to your significant other, there is something wrong with you too. Whether it is a habit or just something indifferent with similarities. So all in all, don't look for Mr. Perfect because he's not there.

Point 2: Why is it after a break-up would you all of a sudden hate your ex? Just because he broke up with you does not mean you can't be friends anymore. I mean you liked each other enough to go out with them in the first place right. I know if they are cheating on you or did something to the extreme you shouldn't be friends with them again, but if it was just because feelings changed or something in that matter, why not be friends? Why hate? You can't help it if your feelings change. I know being a girl I can't even pick clothes out of my closet without changing it 2 times. It's going to happen and most likely teen relationships don't last. That's just how it is.

Point 3: I absolutely hate it when people over exaggerate break-ups. You go out for 4 days and then he dumps you. You spend the next few days eating chocolate ice cream and sobbing into your pillow while listening to Adele. First of all, you can not fall in love with someone in 4 days. Secondly you should have been at least friends first before you went out with him, and thirdly, STOP being a drama queen. You just want attention and you just look desperate.

Now the points that I made are just towards people who have been dating for a couple of weeks and feel the need to make drama. If you have been going out with a guy for over 6 months, I can see why it would be tough. I mean you are with that person almost every day, then it all of a sudden stops. You don't know what to do with yourself anymore. I realize it will be hard, but there is a plan for all of us and he just wasn't part of it.